Q: What is the time frame for sending out wedding thank you notes?

A: There is a lot of debate on this one. Some say you have up to a year, but let’s face it- if you got a thank you note for a wedding you went to LAST summer, would you get slightly bent out of shape that they didn’t get around to thanking you before then? Probably. The best thing to do is to write a few notes every day after the honeymoon, or even better yet- write the thank you’s as the gifts roll in prior to the Big Day, so you don’t forget anyone and you have less to do in one sitting. No matter what, I wouldn’t advise waiting more than 1-3 months post-wedding to mail those puppies.